Just A Thought…Why Wait For Someone To Complete You? Complete Yourself!

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I am a sucker for a sob story. No truer words were spoken about my previous relationships. I am an eternal romantic green with optimism. And my frequent blindness has led me down some troublesome paths. Continue reading “Just A Thought…Why Wait For Someone To Complete You? Complete Yourself!”

Just A Thought… 31 Days Of Yes

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Oh Summer, why are you so fleeting? Don’t you understand, I love you so, never want you to go.

*sigh*

As we enter the last real month of summer, I have embarked on a personally conflicting journey to course through the vein of August. While reading Jennifer Close’s, Girls In White Dresses (definitely suggest reading it; thanks Ma!), the main characters found that life had become a bit, ummm, mundane, stagnant even, and considered dedicating the entire summer to saying yes. Yes to everything asked of them. Parties, kickball teams, you name it. If you’ve seen Yes Man, you get the gist. Continue reading “Just A Thought… 31 Days Of Yes”

Just A Thought… The Age May Have Changed, But The Game Remains The Same

So it’s been a few months, and I’ve met quite a few gentlemen of interest whilst accepting my Facebook relationship status is now single.  And in a lot of ways they fit my criteria. Smart, physically attractive, witty, well-to-do, you catch my drift. Exchange of numbers, then the game begins. You see, everything up until the digit dance is practice for the real sport: the … Continue reading Just A Thought… The Age May Have Changed, But The Game Remains The Same

Fly On The Wall: “By Thought, Word, & Deed”

Though this simple phrase of the Confiteor is very common to Christian practitioners in reverence to The Divine, this commitment also holds weight in the relationship department. Guys, listen up, women recognize the general inability for many of you to become open vessels to your vulnerable, emotional soft spot. But we’re (including myself) are naturally prone to be vulnerable. Please note that I said “vulnerable” … Continue reading Fly On The Wall: “By Thought, Word, & Deed”

Fly On The Wall: Guest Writer: “Tips Of The Relationship Trade”

I have never claimed to be a know-it-all when it comes to relationships because I don’t. Fact is, I am struggling to figure out the whole  male/female dynamic myself. But I have been a woman my entire life, and I know exactly what goes in the female psyche, and I can help those in need, I will. I have enlisted the help of one of … Continue reading Fly On The Wall: Guest Writer: “Tips Of The Relationship Trade”

Fly On The Wall: Staring Contest- Part Un, “All In The Name Of Charity”

These posts are well overdue. I had one of the worst stare offs in my life end recently & I believe things could have gone differently if someone gave my Mr So&So some advice. Guys listen, staring at a woman for prolonged periods of time is weird. But if you insist, there are certain actions that will prove successful. I will impart my latest occurrence upon … Continue reading Fly On The Wall: Staring Contest- Part Un, “All In The Name Of Charity”

Fly On The Wall: The Art Of Approach

First things first, this portion of the site, known as “Fly On The Wall”, IS NOT for women. Men need an inside guy to help them too. So ladies, turn yourselves right around & head back towards the other 99% of this blog dedicated to you. Fellas, I’ve got your back. Continue reading “Fly On The Wall: The Art Of Approach”